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eskielover · Jun 04, 2021, 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by leomama

I read your bio. I was the one who pushed my ex fiancé to get a diagnosis and it turns out it was aspergers. I’ve been divorced too. If I let go of the past then I have almost nothing as the present has almost nothing. I am starting therapy again today. There were a couple of moments I should have walked away from my boyfriend but I didn’t and now I’m stuck in the mud. I see that you are also a Christian so I would ask you to pray for me as I struggle once again to find the light.

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If you let go of the past, you have a whole new future ahead. It doesn't require a man in our life to make it meaningful. I have found a whole new life & there has been no man in my life for 14 years. Finally got the legal divorce 3 years ago but still dealing with legal issues against him.

So glad to hear you are starting therapy again. Seriously, DBT was the best intense 2 year group with individual therapy I ever had. I learned so many useful skills & learned how dysfunctional my whole life had been which was why I never learned those skills earlier in life. Sometimes we just need to start fresh.

Will definitely keep you in my prayers. You can PM me if you want to talk as you struggle to find "the light" again. I was there but when I got free from the past, I was able to spend so much time studying the Bible & experiencing a real relationship with God that I couldn't when my emotions were caught up in the past.