So, he also makes callous comments about others.. Charming.
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He told me to not allow others to abuse me anymore which is easier said than done
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Yet, he has no problem taking your food, your cooking and your hospitality for granted.
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I feel more focused now because of him.
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Herein lies the problem, This is something we ought to do for (and by) ourselves before getting into any relationship. Plus, expecting someone else to 'fill our void', which you also commented on is not the mark of a healthy relationship.
Flattery does not mean someone appreciates and/or respects us. Reciprocal
actions do. Words are cheap otherwise.