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Old Jun 04, 2021, 09:05 AM
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So, he also makes callous comments about others.. Charming.

Yet, he has no problem taking your food, your cooking and your hospitality for granted.

Herein lies the problem, This is something we ought to do for (and by) ourselves before getting into any relationship. Plus, expecting someone else to 'fill our void', which you also commented on is not the mark of a healthy relationship.

Flattery does not mean someone appreciates and/or respects us. Reciprocal actions do. Words are cheap otherwise.
I actually like cooking so it is not a problem for me. It is fun to cook for others. So, I don't see it as a problem,. And, he likes my cooking.

I'm not looking for a serious relationship so he bides my time and makes me happy for now.

He does not flatter anybody. He is just telling me how he feels, He does not flatter people, not his style. He is blunt and is honest about his feelings.

He is not bad as a person. He is only seeing me for now. How do I know? I know this because he seems to see me every time he has a chance. He likes me and I like him. So, he does not like my low salary and wants me to be more ambitious. I understand this. Many people say this to me. But, I do what I like and am happy anyways.