I don;t mind cooking for him since he likes my cooking. I actually offered to cook for him, he did not ask me. Also, I like cooking and trying new recipes. He is the only person I can try these new recipes with so I guess he is my lucky guest.

I am not seeking a serious relationship. I'm not interested in marriage nor commitment given my need for space and my unwillingness to accommodate others. I am happy being alone and once in awhile being with a man. This is enough for me. Who needs a serious relationship, spending much time with someone else? I am happier alone most of the time and just seek companionship once in awhile, that is all.

I've met and dated a few men and believe it or not, he has been the best out of all of them. Some were abusive, some were alcoholics, some were not interested in me as a person, some were married, etc. So, he is single and flawed but he is available and likes me for now. I like him for now too and that is it.

Yes, he is cheap and at times insensitive. But, I'm disabled and not interested in getting involved too emotionally myself. So, he is good enough for me. He is well-educated, nice at times, a gentleman at times, and not interested in hurting me but wants me to be happy too and is supportive of me although I'm a broken person. He is an executive manager, is not ill, has a good education, is fairly good looking and in decent shape. He just shakes unintentionally due to a hereditary condition and is healthy. If he spent more money on dates, he probably can get other women to be interested in him. But, he has so far been just seeing me. I am not seeing anybody else either. So, although we are not serious with each other, we like each other. He texts me morning and night. When I forget, he texts me still. He is not that bad as a person. I know he likes me. He is very affectionate with me and nice to me while we are together. He is not perfect but neither am I.

It is interesting to read everybody's comments but I wonder what they are based on. If you all have decent partners who are perfect in every way, then great. But, I don't think anybody is perfect. Also, like I said, I'm just interested in a casual relationship, nothing too serious. So, he is ideal for me. He is a great lover also, So, I don't have much complaints about him. He is sticking around too which is a miracle for me. Most of the men I dated, never stuck around or dated other women or were married. I don't know where you all met your partners but I must say the dating pool on dating apps is slim pickings. There are not many good men on them so I am happy with him so far. He does not abuse me, is not a scammer, is real, and is so far not dating others. He got off the dating app before I did and asked me if I was on any of them still, I said no. We are good to each other. He is my lover for now. That is all I wanted for now. I have not heard yet if he is leaving. If he does, I will let him go. And, if he stays, we will continue as lovers.

Some of you said he may be married etc. Well, so far, I really doubt he is married given his character. He is so cheap. The crickets chirp when he goes by. I am cheap too but need to be given my earnings. So, we are both cheap for different reasons. I would rather have a responsible financially independent man than one who is riddled in debt does not know how to save his money. The previous stalker used credit cards to pay for everything and did not have a good job but was spending money all over the place. Does this impress me? No, it does not. I don't need others to spend money on me. I make enough to survive, Yes, it is nice for others to spend money on me but I come from a background where my mother told me nothing is free and the most expensive thing is when one does not pay with money. So, I don't know where people get the concept that others should pay for their meals or whatever, are you a prostitute or destitute? So, I pay when I am expected but don't need other people's handouts. And, if someone pays for my meals, I know they are expecting something. I pay for other's meals, as a repayment for their kindness or something they have done for me. I also don't like accepting free meals or gifts since the other party is expecting something in return- as I said, nothing is free in this world. As for him accepting my home-cooked meals, like I said, I like cooking and trying new recipes with others. He likes my cooking. So, I find him charming and sweet. I don't cook that well! He told me he does not cook nor do housework. He has a maid at home and also does not know how to cook. Yes, I should ask him to pay for some items, I do. And, he plans to take me out so it is not like he is taking advantage of me. He is not, and I offered to cook for him.

So, he is ok by me. I do like him to some extent. And, he likes me. I like the fact he is honest with me and tells me how he feels. This is better than people who put up a false front and never tell their true feelings. So, we like each other for now. I don't expect anything serious from him and vice versa. We have a mutual understanding. And, if he decides to leave while he is here, I will let him go too. We are not bound to each other. I am happy and hopefully so is he.