I’m glad you’re not one of those counsellors who pushes someone to answer a question they don’t actually have the answer said type of counsellor assumes they do, and it will come out when client cracks under the pressure of being asked. The last person I saw seemed kind of insistent that I knew why I felt the way I did with my ex. I couldn’t find the words to explain that was actually what I was hoping she’d help me figure out.