My thought was that if your T is willing to help you explain things, then by blacking out parts and explaining to your son that there is so much hurtful info in the paperwork and taking one thing at a time is for his own good might be the way to go.

lyn, what does your gut tell you to do in this situation? I find that 99% of the time, your gut is the best reaction to go with in every situation. We have an intuition if we listen carefully to it, it will help guide us to make the right decisions.

I know this is very hard for you....and for your sons. I hope you can all find your way through this to a more peaceful place.


sabby