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Old Jun 05, 2021, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967 View Post
It still blows my mind that you up and moved continents and I still enjoy reading your messages about your new life. It sounds like you got a lot done outside. That’s great! I hope your back clears up soon.
Thanks, Jennifer!

You know, in my 20s and early 30s, moving abroad would have seemed no biggie. The reason was because I lived and traveled abroad for brief times. Even all by myself. I was fearless back then. But then from my mid-30s up until just barely a year ago, such a move would have been seemingly impossible. I've made huge progress since then, with both managing my illness and regaining confidence. Of course my recent big move was not alone. I would not have managed without my husband. Nor would I have even attempted it without him. And yet, I played a leading (or equal) part in the tasks to prepare for our house sale and move. I felt empowered. I still do, to a large degree. That doesn't mean I'm managing perfectly, though. There are still challenges I'm avoiding. But who can be perfect? Who can do everything all at once? Being OK that I can't is, to me, great progress in and of itself. After what I went through those terrible years, nothing ahead seems insurmountable.

Hugs from:
*Beth*, Anonymous41462, Anonymous45023, Nammu, Sunflower123, ~Christina
Thanks for this!
Sunflower123, ~Christina