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There is so much powerful truth in your message I really don't know where to start because I can't add much.

Reflecting on what could have been is something I think we all do when things are not going well.

I really like the statement "having a friendship with a former lover can be really hard on all the people involved." That is so true.
Also having feelings for someone else while you are married is difficult. The situation must be evaluated throughly. The desire for momentary pleasure is dangerous. I am not perfect and I know that there are others out there with feeling like I have.
The harm comes when we act on those feelings. Having feelings for other people is not wrong, what action you take can be.

You have good insite, thanks for sharing,