This is not something which Scarlet should need to keep in mind. The limitations of the therapist's role and remit are the sole responsibility of the therapist, not the client. Scarlet does not need to consider her therapist's boundaries when she is trying to manage her own struggle and hurt; upholding professional boundaries is the job of the therapist. I agree that crisis support is not the business of therapists, but
when a therapist extends a boundary in this way they need to be able to follow through or else don't offer crisis support in the first place.