(((((wounded1))))) First let me say that I hope you and the baby are doing fine. You’re exactly right that only your opinion matters, it’s very easy for us to say this is wrong, or this is right. The only exception to that, in my opinion, is where there is abuse involved.

It’s nice that you have so many people that love you and are concerned about your welfare. Are you asking their advice or are they just volunteering it?

I’m guilty of this myself. My niece, whom I love dearly, is extremely intelligent, beautiful; caring to a fault but always picks the wrong guy. I’m not kidding, you can have 99 wonderful men in the room with one loser, and she’ll pick the loser every time.

She asks my opinion, and I used give it to her in black and white, she’d get mad. I don't say these things to bother her, but I've made a few mistakes in my time and there's a few observations I've made along the way. It's so hard to watch someone you love making a mistake and sit quietly by. Now when she asks my opinion, I just tell her that I love her and wish her the best.