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Jun 06, 2021, 02:10 AM
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I'm having a good time enjoying Spring. My neighbors and i sat out for three (3) hours the day before yesterday in the dog-park the weather was so lovely.
We talked and laughed and i found out my one retired male neighbor who i thought was dull is actually an amateur artist (sculpting and print-making at the moment).
He has a piece on our cool city hall property and a commission for another. He's now in retirement from a career in international surveillance with the Department of Defense!
So, wow, now i'm REALLY impressed. He's got a nice gentle measured manner and is very gracious and thoughtful. I look forward to getting to know him better. He's nice-looking too and the right age and lives right here in the building.
Possibilities!!!
He's got a disability too, diabetes, which was out of control for a while but he's making a strong recovery, walking for an hour or more each day. He'd be a good influence on me.
I'm interested in caricature and he's wanting to learn how to create comics, so we're at similar places in our lives, both retired and looking for our next pet project and working on our physical health.
We'll call him NM for "Next Man."
I'm also exploring a same-sex relationship. I think lesbianism is beautiful. I just think the power-dynamics would be easier to manage in a same-sex relationship. I've been texting with a woman over the Facebook dating app for about a week now.
Only thing is she seems very busy working and already has adult children and grandkids. I'd be pretty low on her list of priorities. NM has all the time in the world.
He attended my amuse-bouche and stayed and seems happy to while away the hours with us in the dog-park even tho he does not have a dog. I really think there are possibilities with NM. I like his gentle manner.
@Kelly68 and all:
Welcome aboard! Jump in, the water is warm!
@Jennifer 1967 and all:
Glad to hear you have finally decided to get yourself some help with the care of your mom and brother and the house! You certainly deserve it! Here's to a more comfortable lifestyle going forward with more time to enjoy yourself. You've worked your tail off being the care-giver and it's time you get some time for yourself. Glad to hear it!!!
Have a beautiful day everyone!
Jane.
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