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Originally Posted by WovenGalaxy
That sounds assertive to me.
It sounds like you are still angry / annoyed with her for doing this and that there are some trust issues in this friendship. You have a right to feel this way. I might, too.
I am wondering why you are wondering if you were assertive enough? What else were you thinking of saying to her / doing?
In regards to your question wondering what you should do moving forward with this friendship, what do YOU want to do?
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I wish I would have said that I am uncomfortable giving his last name instead of giving her one that just sounded like his. I should have just said, "I'm not comfortable saying his last name." When I told one person about the interaction, they said I was being too nice and that I was letting her off too easily, so I really wasn't sure if I said the right thing.
This interaction made me trust her a lot less than before. She does have a history of gossiping and not treating one of our mutual friends very nicely, which led my other friend to no longer contact her.