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Old Jun 06, 2021, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967 View Post
My staycation is not off to an auspicious start. I was making coffee and my brother was using the microwave across the kitchen. His fruity alcohol smelling breath almost knocked me over. For a diabetic who is recovering from acute kidney failure that’s bad news and needs medical attention. We traipsed back to the ER and mom and I waited there for 6 hours until she got sick so she and I came home and my sister stepped in. I’m taking care of mom now. She’s still confused as to why we were there. That’s not good either. My brother and sister are still at the ER. Bless everyone’s heart that is involved. May things calm down and improve.

I’d like to say ok now enough is enough. I’d like a break now but really what am I going to do? They need me. I am going to look into part time caregivers for hire and someone to help with the house ASAP as some of you have kindly tried to nudge me toward. Thank you.

I hope everyone is having a peaceful weekend. Hugs to all!
Oh Jennifer I am so sorry that everything is hitting from all sides Yes look into getting some help. Often insurance will help pay for care even if a family member is doing most. I dont know your brothers situation with insurance. When I did home health care I was often there so that main care giver(s) could get a much needed break. Yes you need help and sooner rather than later..

Take care of you during all this
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