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Originally Posted by Nammu
What she is talking about are the real special snowflakes that run around accusing every other person of being toxic or a bully or an abuser and they take no responsibility for themselves. Funny how everyone them around is a bully, an abuser or toxic when the common denominator is them. But they go on pointing at everyone but themselves. A good long look in the mirror is what they need
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In my life, I had one friend who blamed everyone else for everything and never looked in the mirror, yet she didn't run around calling everyone toxic or an abuser or a bully. In my experience, usually people who use these words are accurately describing the negative and unhealthy behavior of another person.
The fact of the matter is, there are plenty of abusers and bullies in this world. The world is full of them. Many work environments are described as "toxic" because of bullies and negative behavior. Many relationships fall apart because of abuse. This world is rampant with abuse and bullying. When an environment or a person effect one's mental health negatively, it is typically described as "toxic", which to me, as I said above, simply equates to being poisonous to your spirit and soul.
The OP said she is referring to just a few. I don't think it's the norm for many people to run around calling everyone else toxic, a bully or an abuser when it's them who has the problem. I'm 50 years old, and I've never run across such a person in my life, which doesn't mean they don't exist.