Quote:
Originally Posted by Nammu
What she is talking about are the real special snowflakes that run around accusing every other person of being toxic or a bully or an abuser and they take no responsibility for themselves. Funny how everyone them around is a bully, an abuser or toxic when the common denominator is them. But they go on pointing at everyone but themselves. A good long look in the mirror is what they need
|
While I know there are people with particular personalities who are prone to blame the other guy when the problem is within themselves, the problem is in generalizing that anyone describing someone else as toxic is doing that. Generalizing (in general - LOL) is a bad habit. But I find most people I've personally run into (not generalizing here - actually working from specific personal examples) who have a person in their life who is genuinely dangerous for them/ toxic for them (whatever term they use) aren't using that term except for one particular individual in their life - and those "toxic" individuals tend to be highly abusive, narcissistic, manipulative SOB's and the use of "toxic" to describe them is probably kinder than those "toxic" individuals deserve.