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Originally Posted by divine1966
I’d say if you need to ask a man to see you more, this relationship has no future. If he wanted to see you more, he already would. So I think in addition to you cnot particularly feeling it, he doesn’t seem to be feeling it either. It doesn’t mean you don’t enjoy each other company. But it’s not a love story.
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Interesting pov. I don't know if I ever saw a guy who wanted to do this once settled in a relationship. I.e. wanting so much to meet more, etc etc. Guys seem to just settle fast in the relationship after the initial short honeymoon. Though, I did listen to a married guy (who wanted to have an affair with me, of course) talk about how he does still regularly take out his wife for dinner, date nights, whatever.
I'm not aiming to get stuck in being cynical or skeptical though. In theory, I'm open to finding different experiences/guys. I am open to hearing about what I may have missed. I am just very conservative as it is now. I am making sure to not believe anything unreal.
So anyway, experiences aside, again, I don't want to get cynical, so I do think it's not impossible for OP's boyfriend to be willing/interested in meeting more often. Why not make sure of that instead of assuming. Hope OP got a positive response from him.