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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think when you meet right person, it’s ok to share that you are anxious and it’s ok to be yourself. If the relationship is right and the person is a good match, it’s ok to be vulnerable and you don’t need to be perfect. Unless you anticipate to do something extraordinarily bizarre, you can’t really scare the right person by being yourself. Ultimately you can only be yourself. Eventually true nature comes out anyways so no point to be anything less than yourself from the get go. For all you know he might be anxious too!
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That's a good point. I did not think about how maybe he is anxious about making a good impression as well. I spoke with him on the phone a few minutes ago, and our conversation lasted about an hour and flowed freely. So I think so far the communication is going well, and I did drop a hint that I get anxiety. I do not want to scare him off with my history of emotional problems though, so I try to just share a little bit and keep things upbeat.