So Sorry that things are being hard! Please do not give up! i am afraid i must agree with the other wise and wonderful posters abotu simply blocking him. If he isn't doing anything illegal i am not sure if there's something more you can do about that. People can't delete their past but they can learn from it i think. i think moving on may simply be the best option unless he seems REALLY willing to change. At least you haven't actually Married him if i have read that correctly. Hopefully things will improve soon. Stay safe. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @leomama, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!