My cat is staying at the vet tonight and it doens't look good, so I feel like crying all day. I'm going to try to do these things today, with lots of breaks to just breath:
- go through one stack of paper and sort/toss as needed
- clean the cat boxes
-Dust and vaccum my living room
-put dishes in dishwasher

Thanks to you all for sharing yourself here, I'm glad I found you!