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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think time will be better spent on trying to break this cycle rather than trying to get ex partners to come back to you or trying to change them. It’s a waste of your mental energy.
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Thank you, this line was great. Came just at the right time. Yesterday I was thinking about the 2nd bad, traumatic relationship I had (I had two in total), and somehow I was looking at patterns very far back in childhood, recognising something about them and trying to transform them in my own mind and emotionally if that makes any sense at all.
(It doesn't even have to be about romantic relationships. Just any kind of attached relationship. That 2nd bad relationship wasn't a romantic one)