A mutual friend told me we brought out the worst in each other . Another mutual friend told me that’s what people in relationships do. So I’m owning the worst in me. I actually heard the words “dismissive” and “ridicule” from the boyfriend this week. I heard those same words from the ex fiancé. I don’t know how to take my space when the relationship goes wrong. I have a therapy appointment in 2 weeks where I can address this. Honestly I’m not looking for a specific outcome with the ex fiancé other then peace. I told him all I wanted was to be able to be friends at this point without fussing and fighting. I was able to make amends with the ex husband . I’d like to achieve the same with the ex fiancé . If I’m able to achieve that goal, then I’ll see if there’s a next step.