turning 40 didn't bother me at all. 43 was another story! dang I was so upset! finally came out of that after a few yrs. then 50 really didn't do too much damage. will be 51 in about 3 weeks and man right now I don't know what to think/feel! lol I think I am ok with it though. I have lived half a century and like many have seen many many changes in the world! court don't be afraid of growing older. you will be growing much wiser! I love it