I finally am on a dating app again and met online another man who says he will pay for our dates. He is also interested in friendship and long-term relationship. So, this is quite a change!! Also, he is American!! He also teaches cooking classes and is an executive director of a company. This is a whole lot better!! I will write him online until we meet next week. Thank you so much everybody for your comments. I listened and am relieved to have gotten rid of the other man who did not offer to pay that much for his end of the deal. Also, he told me he was not interested in being in contact with me when he went back home. So, he was just using me!! Lol, so, I live and learn. I am looking forward to meeting this new man. Hopefully, it turns out better than this last situation!!