So Sorry you have to put up with this! Please Do not give up! i agree with the wise and wonderful Marie123. Please do stay way from him and if things do get violent don't hesitate to call the police. Hopefully things will turn out to be pretty Ok. Please do keep us updated if you can and want to. Stay Safe. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @pwok, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!