I think I’ll just tell her “I feel like our personality’s clash and I am wondering if you know of someone in the practice who’d be a better fit for me.” I’ll probably first say “don’t get mad, but…” she actually talked awhile ago if switching me to someone younger then her would be a better fit. So she has thought about it too. But last session I could tell she could tell I was uncomfortable with her.
I’ll talk to her in person on Wednesday about it.
Thanks for the suggestions they were helpful.