He told you he isn’t in love with you. That means he isn’t romantically interested. So that’s why he makes his own plans and does his own thing, doesn’t invite you anywhere and sees no need to introduce you to people. I’d stop pursuing him at this point

I understand it’s hard to let him go but you might be missing on good things in life by trying to get this man to be someone he isn’t

I disagree that men tune women out. Men like to chit chat just the same as women