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Originally Posted by Alive99
Wow that's pretty cool, that therapist.
I think my goal isn't about being more social...but about feeling happy with people again. And that is really about believing in my future, that I'm not stuck in some dead end forever. Somehow if I can feel happy with people then I believe in the future more too. And then that's mood lifting.
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I would relativised the role other people may play in your life. I mean...the most important is your own self-confidence and enjoying the activities you choose. The other comes within. And much more if you don’t have problems being sociable.
I’m not saying is easy to find people you may feel comfortable with, ok? It will depend on many factors.
For example, my mother is such an easy-going person that she joined a group trip (it was the first trip she enrolled in after my daddy’s passing away, the very first trip) and from then on, she has a group of friends to do all kind of activities and even a partner.
I’m just the opposite. So, it will depend on many factors. But, first, it’s you and your interests. It’s convenient not to begin to build the house by making the roof first.