Yeah I know if he cared that much he'd go out of his way for me. It is too convenient for him. I guess I'm back in reality when I read these replies. I'm glad though that I met him. But there's no future. It sucks, but I can make it on my own. My gf's live far from me too, and with covid still not getting everything going around here, it did kind of feel good just to get out. But he's just out to use me for whatever, and I don't want to feel like a doormat. Thanks for the input everyone. I've deleted his text and phone number. If he does text I'll go back to ignoring him or just a polite simple reply. Why does it seem so hard as we age to find a good man. I know I made a big mistake by driving to him, because he likes to be where he lives...... so what, then I'm not worth any effort. I sure should work on my own self esteem and my own matters than need tending to.