So Sorry you're all going through this! Please do not give up! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about contacting a therapist if this has been going on for long, perhaps one specialized with teens' problems. i think it may be relatively normal for her to feel this way but of course it is not up to me to say that. Other than that i think the best you can do is to simply be there for her and Support her in any way you can as a parent and mother. Hopefully things will improve soon for everyone. Please do keep us updated if you can and want to. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @lovethesun, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!