certainsomething, I have to say, I don't envy your situation. I didn't marry my hubby until I was 31 years old, and although I wasn't one to sleep around, I had had a dozen or so sexual partners before we met. I am so very grateful for those experiences (good and bad), as they allowed me to experience different levels of intimacy with different personality types. It made me appreciate the kind of intimacy, and passion, that I found with my husband. It also allowed me to be able to speak freely about my desires, and be open to his.

Now that being said, it sounds like you've achieved a level of intimacy, and passion with your current girlfriend, that most people never find! Ask yourself this, are you willing to walk away from that (probably forever) in hopes of "something better" with a different woman (or women)? I know many here will tell you, sex with the hottest, most physically beautiful person, may suck! It's like biting into a chocolate from a box with no pictures and descriptions, it may look "yummy", but what if the center is the kind you don't like??!!!

I can only suggest that you talk with your GF about how you're feeling. There are things you can do in your own bedroom that can make you feel like you're with a whole different person. Exploring different areas of your own sexual desires can be just as exciting as being with someone new!

I wish you luck, keep us posted (no pun intended) on how things go.