So Sorry this is happening! Please Do not give up! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about beoing direct and clear with him. Hopefully he will understand and he won't make any trouble at work or anywhere else. Just try to take a firm and strong position. You have every Right to break up with him if you're not feeling comfortable and if he's not respecting your Faith. Please do keep us updated if you can and want to. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @leomama, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!