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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
I was wrong. I had the idea that there were more communication problems with your husband than the intimacy thing. I’n not diminishing this problem, only that I thought you didn’t understand each other at any level.
Have you guys talked about going to couple therapy?
What was the psychiatrist was referring to when (s)he says it will happen the same to you with any partner?
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We are in couples therapy.
The psychiatrist was referring to my having unstable interpersonal relationships.
It’s been too hard for me to get to the truth about what is ‘wrong’ with me, how much of it is coming from me vs. how much comes from the other person. I’m too obsessed with trying to figure this out, and the answers are elusive.
Again, best to disengage.