Oh my dear ((((((((((((((((( Kimmy ))))))))))))))))))) as bad as it sounds, it also sounds like there is hope for some relief that is bareable and liveable for you. I too hope you don't have to go down the road of surgery right off the bat. I sure hope you now realize that you DESERVE to take care of yourself now more than ever my friend.
Rest as best you can hon.....know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

sabby