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Jun 16, 2021, 12:41 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,082
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My main complaint this time is the handful of coworkers who are treating me differently than they used to. Why did they have to become like that when the way they were before was just fine? Matter of fact, given I used to get along with them, why couldn’t they be sympathetic instead of borderline hateful?
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The bottom line is, the more unacceptable your behaviour becomes to their observation the less sympathetic people become no matter what the reason is that you behave that way. That is how most people are. We will tolerate bad behavior to a certain point but when that point is passed we want nothing more to do with that person.
Whether your behavior is bad because that is the way you behave or it is magnified by your ASD issues, doesn't really matter to people who don't want to be around that kind of behavior.
The path you are heading on without the support you really need to learn how to function around people better is not a good path. It is obvious you need better support than you are getting because you keep doing the same things again & again & wonder why you get the same results. Finding work in another field than dealing with the public & the fast food environment would be to your benefit.
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