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Old Jun 16, 2021, 02:48 PM
Alive99 Alive99 is offline
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Originally Posted by SunnyCoast View Post
When I hold her, I feel relaxed and comfortable, not sexual. Is this normal? Is it good? I’m still attracted to her but not passionate.

Having never gotten this serious with someone before I am really curious if it is normal. Do I need to change things up to try to bring this passion back or is it good for the future of us?
Are you still able to feel sexual about her, just not all the time?


I personally find that I need more emotional stimulation after a while or the emotions will die, yeah. (Attraction may remain but otherwise nothing.) Maybe like after 8 months is when I need the relationship "step up" to another level, in the emotional sense. When I need some new stimulation. That's my theory anyway..........