I like how you said you want to have as much fun as possible. There is nothing wrong with having fun. I think it would be more fun hanging out with people you can have fun with though. Don’t even need to be romantic. Friendships and casual encounters with people are fun. It doesn’t seem much fun though if you never see this person or talk to. It doesn’t sound like fun.

It’s good to find people who share the same faith. Unfortunately if he is not engaged in conversations and meetings with you his faith isn’t as relevant to the situation. He has to be on the same page with you for it to matter. There are many religious men out there who’d be interested in romantic relationships with women of the same faith and for whom faith is important. He isn’t interested though

Have you considered making friends in your area?