Thanks leomama for clarifying that with me. He's mentioned he thinks he's a narcissist.. I know what a true narcissist. To me this was a way for him to see if I know anything about psychology, and I do know what a narcissist is. I just said, no I don't see it, you'd own the best of everything, you'd be obsessed with your looks, you'd love power and he is someone who is generous. A bit dominant, but that's what males are.

He has a way of making me feel good. The comment about his past gf being as smart as a whip, is just a passing comment. She was bulemic, don't know if I spelled that right, and he tried to help her before she died. I guess he couldn't understand how she was quite smart but couldn't see she was killing herself slowly. He's already said he knows I'm smart, whether it be musically inclined or what.. he wasn't sure. So he hasn't been anything other than a good influence in my life.

My withdrawal isn't about love, sex or that, it's opiods that are prescribed for pain, so I'm quite moody and react to quickly to comments. Thanks again. If I could help you leomama I would, I don't know an answer. Maybe the ex fiance needs to know you're single, and not involved anymore. Maybe there is a future with him in store for you. I wish you all the best.