How did she show herself to be hateful?

Some people who say they love me and do act like they do have also acted hatefully. I’ve dealt with this all my life. Their motivation was I did not do what they wanted! I don’t know or think this is typical or healthy behavior. But it happens to me.

I call my friendship with the one I discussed here a real “true” friendship even though she did eventually become a user (not a true friend) and flamed out on me in anger and that’s how it ended.