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Alive99
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Default Jun 17, 2021 at 08:15 AM
 
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
MI is mental illness. It was a tragic situation with my dad.

I did not think anything of past trauma or my mental health until the relationship got so unstable I had to see psychiatrists/psychologists. I have been obsessed with trying to figure it all out.

Thanks for the advice to disengage!

I am sorry about your dad. And with this marriage, maybe you two really just don't fit together well, if you never had to think about trauma and mental health in other relationships before this one. Like it's definitely not about you, it's either about him or the particular way you two fit/don't fit together in a close relationship. I think I mentioned that before, that I think this is the most likely. Just my opinion of course, as an outsider on a forum
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Thanks for this!
TishaBuv