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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I have.  When you start really looking at it with open eyes, you see there’s really nothing special about them. Or, at least, what we want to be ‘that something about them’ really isn’t there. It feels like qualities have been attributed to them they don’t actually have. It helps with putting the emotions back into reality and finding closure.  |
I strongly agree with you. I thought there was something special with that guy I was obsessed with, too. I couldn't describe what it was either. Now, I don't see anything. It was all a fantasy and it took me 3 years to finally realize it.