My Support Forums - View Single Post - Why Self-sabotage?

eskielover · Jun 18, 2021 at 05:51 PM

Have a few thoughts & wondering on thos topic. I for one am not a self-sabotager. I don't fear conflict. So if anyone gets in the way of what I am aiming at, I will bulldoze them right out of my life when the opportunity arises. If something, not someone gets in the way, I will analize is to death to figure a way around it or figure out an even better plan.

I am wondering if those who self-sabotage are very determined to achieve what they want? Are they people who avoid conflict & easily give in to the things or people who would sabotage their aims & goals when some challenge comes into the picture.

I wonder just how much has to do with learned behaviors or maybe basic born with personality.

I think the topic can really be a very deep reaching one that has many facets in each h person's life that does that & I think there are probably more reasons why than we can even imagine....lol....my 2 cents worth on the topic