Both looks and personality attract us to the person. Some people are so shallow they are only attracted to look and don’t care much about personality. I think it’s a balance. I can be attracted to personality, but if not attracted to looks, it won’t go beyond friendship. Plus, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What looks attract me are not necessarily traditional good looks.

People age and change, but at least we both do, so it’s still that looks are on equal ground. I joke that I am glad our eyesight is going so we don’t see the wrinkles!

Personality is more crucial than looks IMO, but I still have to be attracted physically to be intimate.