i think it is an important question. i partly agree with the wise and wonderful BigBubba that looks are important at least for certain people. First impressions can count. Of course i am not sure if there's anyone that may use that as their only criteria. i think in general things like dressing well and smelling well may be Useful as well though not entirely related to one's look. It may have something to do with self-confidence as well i think. i have almost zero experience myself and perhaps that is because i am a bit ugly but also because i have never really put myself out there perhaps. i think there can be several factors at play, some more important maybe. Stay Safe. Do not give up Hope. Sending many Safe, warm Hugs to BOTH you, @sarahsweets, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!