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Jun 19, 2021, 08:03 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Originally Posted by BigBubba
I've been fat. I've had acne. I've been dressing poorly. Then I've shaped up. I've taken care of acne. I've dressed well. During the journey I've been on every step of the ladder and this is the conclusion:
Looks are CRUCIAL. They matter A LOT. Personality is secondary in the big picture. If you're not sexually attracted to someone then that person may stay around... as a friend. On the other hand, if Brad Pitt had a personality of a rotten potato, he wouldn't get anybody as well. So the personality has to be there, but without looks it doesn't really matter (it's hard to get to know someone if you don't want to talk to them).
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you said you used to be fat. Me too! I had gastric bypass in Los Angeles and 27 pounds and I’ve managed to keep it off for 14 years of which I am very proud. But when I was heavy I know I was beautiful. I know this because I felt it. I don’t feel like my weight made me ugly. And that’s the kind of thing I’m talking about when it comes to society’s view of women in particular but women and men. Of course looks matter. If the chemistry is there nothing will happen I get that. And I’m not saying looks thing. What I am saying is the weight placed on looks can sort of be almost too much. Almost like personally a secondary. If anything they are equal but in my eyes personality trumps looks.
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