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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
you said you used to be fat. Me too! I had gastric bypass in Los Angeles and 27 pounds and I’ve managed to keep it off for 14 years of which I am very proud. But when I was heavy I know I was beautiful. I know this because I felt it. I don’t feel like my weight made me ugly. And that’s the kind of thing I’m talking about when it comes to society’s view of women in particular but women and men. Of course looks matter. If the chemistry is there nothing will happen I get that. And I’m not saying looks thing. What I am saying is the weight placed on looks can sort of be almost too much. Almost like personally a secondary. If anything they are equal but in my eyes personality trumps looks.
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I understand your point, but the harsh true is that very often being fat makes you ugly.
I'm a little bit like that dude. I'm no model, but my face was fat and once I've lost lots of weight the game went upside down. Currently I'm slightly overweight (it's a fruit of covid isolation) and AGAIN, my face is bigger and my market value on dating scene is lower haha
Stay in shape. It's healthy, you look better, you don't get tired that much, and you live longer. That's what I say.