“These days” is the point Sarahsweets was making - many people are shallow and only go for looks these days, over personality. Not everyone, but it’s definitely a trend. I’ve had boyfriends in the past who were really good looking (including a Neo from the Matrix lookalike - he even wore similar clothes) but I have to say if I were ever to date again, based on my experience I would choose personality over looks. The Neo lookalike tried to play mind games with me in the end and was generally a douche all round.