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When I was 15 I was dating a jock and he was sooo cute BUT I soon found out he had the intelligence of a rock. Then I had this epiphany (or at least it seemed like one at 15 lol) If I'm only attracted to someone for their looks or money that someone can be in an accident and be horrifically scarred or that person could have a change of circumstances and lose it all. If I like them for their personality well short of a brain injury or something along those lines that doesn't usually change. So I decided right then and there to do my best to forget about looks and focus on personality.
I'm not saying I don't notice if someone is attractive (in my eyes, to each their own) but if they don't have personality forget it. In my experience liking someone's personality makes them attractive to me. I think I am in the minority though.
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I think I need help 'cause I'm drowning in myself. It's sinking in, I can't pretend that I ain't been through hell. I think I need help---Papa Roach
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