Kimmy,
Thank you so much for your advice and guidance on this subject. It has helped me tremendously. I appreciate everyone's advice and comfort. I will wait to talk to him, and I will let him come to me when he feels comfortable speaking with me about it.

My fiance gets upset about the way my brother treats me, and he asks me why I put up with it. I tell him it's because I know that my brother is sick, and you wouldn't abandon and shun someone with cancer would you? I just feel so badly for my brother, and I hate thinking that he's sad and l want to help in any way I can. I am just so relieved that he admitted that he had a problem and is willing to seek help.

Perhaps when he's ready, and after he's been diagnosed and is being treated, I will encourage him to visit this website. Everyone is incrediby nice and supportive, and there is so much information here. I know it would be a benefit to him.

I will keep everyone posted on his progress. Thank you everyone very much again for your support and encouragement.