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Originally Posted by BigBubba
I'm 26 and I'm not a big fan of long-term relationships so I've been around the block for few years now.
When I was out of shape I had to lead, big time. Girl asking me one question in first 30 minutes was super rare. I even got spit on once lol
When I shaped up and took care of my skin and invested lots of money into my style, I got great results with very little effort. Still, when I showed up on a party with a friend of mine who's looks like a model I wasn nothing more than his shadow to all women in the room.
Yes, its about attraction and looks.
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Well, what do I know?
I've been married longer than you've been alive.
Its more important to focus on compatibility. You have to be friends first. Maybe your problem isn't your looks. It could be your attitude towards yourself. If you like yourself and are self confidedent it shows in the way you carry yourself and women notice that.
On the most primitive level, men want women who will be good breeders and the women want the strongest men as providers for them and their children.