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Originally Posted by JH8854
I feel like the only way I can move past this person is if I find another woman with similar qualities both physical and mental that I find reminiscent of her, and that evokes the same feelings in me. I'm sure my longing will fade with time but I still find it hard to enjoy my life at the moment.
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I think that would only prolong the Limerence, and not give you any relief. No Contact is said to be the best tactic for allowing the feelings to subside.
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Originally Posted by JH8854
Has anyone here experienced unrequited love and if so how did you process your emotions?
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Yes, still entangled in a Limerence Event(5+ years). She and I are friends on a certain level. It is a constant challenge for me to maintain the "appropriate" level of closeness with her, as my obsessive-self would elevate our relationship into a fantasy high level, which would severely crash & burn.